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title: Why does Vicci never get asked to dance？
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date: 2026-04-28T08:02:00.567Z
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## FOCUS 
- This lesson addresses the issue of leaders hesitating to ask followers to dance due to misconceptions about responsibility, aiming to promote equality and shared creativity in blues dance partnerships.
## TIP & TRICKS:
- Emphasize simplicity over fancy moves for a more connected and musical dance.
- Focus on smiling and dancing from the heart to enhance enjoyment and presence.
- Embrace making mistakes as part of the creative and spontaneous process of social dancing.

##REMEMBER
- Blues dance partnerships should be 50-50, with equal responsibility for creative input and expression.
- The leader is not solely responsible for the follower's good time; it's a shared communication.
- Cultural roots of blues dance emphasize individuality, expression, and equality in lead-follow roles.
